7 online tools · €590 for 180 days

Find your wife on purpose.

You have the success. You haven't met her yet. 7 tools to know your type, where to meet women like her, and when to commit.

Frederic writes back by email. Not a matchmaker, and we never contact women.

Fair TrialM. · day 90

7 of 8 dealbreakers known

  • ChildrenAligned
  • TravelConflict
  • Money styleNot yet known

Who it's for

You're between 30 and 45 and you've built something. Money and work are sorted. Meeting a woman you genuinely connect with isn't.

Founders

10 years of long weeks. Dating got whatever was left.

You give finding her the attention you gave the company.

Executives

All day people want something from you. You can't tell who wants you.

You meet women who'd choose you without the title.

Technical founders

Small talk costs you more than a hard problem.

You go where conversation comes easily to you.

Introverts

A loud bar on a Friday is the worst room of your week.

You meet her in places where you're at your best.

Dating apps

Matches, first dates, nothing that lasted.

Fewer dates, with women you'd actually marry.

Not for short-term dating.

Taps free · Type Card €90

Type

Part of your taste in faces is yours alone. This learns yours. First the life you want, then up to 360 faces, all made by AI.

TypeFounder, 38 · Warsaw

Warm, natural, cultivated

  • Your outcomeMarried within 3 years, 2 children, Warsaw
  • Look 1 · 71%Natural, light make-up, long hair
  • Look 2 · 29%Sleek dark hair, red lip, tailored
  • Faces liked38 of 360 faces

€79

Type Personality

What to check in her over the first dates. The 5 traits that count in a partner, and how each one shows on a date.

Type PersonalityFounder, 38 · Warsaw

5 traits to check on your first 3 dates

  • Emotional stabilityStays even when a plan falls apart
  • WarmthKind to the waiter, asks you questions back
  • DependableOn time, keeps small promises
  • Calm about distanceFine with 2 quiet days while you travel
  • Values fitTalks about her own plans, not only yours

€290 with 1 re-test

Standards Check

See how 20 women like the one you want see you today. Standards stated by 30 women who match her age, country and values.

Close the gap with coaching

Standards CheckCalm, ambitious, family-minded · scores of 7

6 of 20 would say yes

  • Range3 to 10 of 20
  • Self-careYou 6.0 · women 3.4Blind spot
  • KindnessWomen 4.6 · her ideal 6.4Gap 1.8
  • PurposeWomen 4.0 · her ideal 5.9Gap 1.9
  • IntelligenceWomen 6.1 · her ideal 5.8Meets
  • Re-testDay 60 · target 11 of 20

Free · credits from voting

Photo rating

How your photos land. Other men vote on them for attractive, smart and trustworthy. You earn your votes by voting.

Photo rating6 photos · 60 votes

Photo 3 first, photo 4 out

  • Photo 3Speaking on stageLead with it
  • Photo 1Hiking with friends, faces blurredKeep
  • Photo 4Selfie in the carRemove
  • Your credits12, from votes you gave

€149 first city · €49 each extra

Meeting places

Pick the setting and you pick the pool. A 90-day rotation of dinners, galleries, runs and evenings you host, in your city.

Meeting placesWarsaw · 90 days

This week: a singles dinner for 6

  • WednesdaysTimeleft dinner19:00
  • ThursdaysZachęta, National Gallery of ArtFree entry
  • Saturdaysparkrun Pole Mokotowskie, 5 km09:00
  • Thursday 19 NovWarsaw Creative Club social mixer19:00
  • Monday 23 NovVarsovia Society, Slow Friending18:00
  • You hostA gallery visit for 4 to 6, then dinner

Verdict free · plan €29 · 5 plans €99

Real Check

Is she who she says she is? The warning signs fraud agencies list, then what you still need to learn and how to ask her.

Real CheckK. · Hinge · matched 2 Nov

Verdict: Clear

  • Your image searchNo stock, model or scam hits
  • Warning signs1 of 12, a mild one: WhatsApp in 24 h
  • Chat wordsMoney 0 · crypto 0 · urgency 0
  • Learn nextWhere she sees herself in 5 years
  • NextVideo call, then a public place

€190 for 180 days

Fair Trial

Commit, or are you wasting each other's time? Track the 5 things most closely tied to how good the relationship feels to you, every week, then decide on day 90.

Fair TrialM. · day 90

7 of 8 dealbreakers known

  • ChildrenYou both want themAligned
  • MonogamyYes for bothAligned
  • TravelYour 120 days a yearConflict
  • Money styleAsk on the next tripNot yet known
  • DisagreementsRepaired the same day, 9 of 12
  • Your callCommit, continue or end it kindly

The method

In 2019 Frederic described the woman he wanted on 4 pages. In December 2021 he matched with a woman who met every line on them. Since then he has taken founders and executives through the same method.

4

pages to describe her

14

days from knowing what he wanted to their first match

6

months to engaged

Dating Funnels for Business Owners, his book of January 2023. The 7 tools come from its method.

Principles

Clarity first

You write the relationship you want before you see a single face.

One type

Specific only on what matters to you.

Data doesn't lie

What you say you want, next to what you pick.

Don't settle

A dated decision on day 90.

Objective feedback

Women of your type rate your photos and profile.

Nothing left to luck

A weekly rotation of places, and evenings you host.

Frederic Bodin

Frederic BodinCo-founder, author

BogdanCo-founder

Coaching

When you want someone beside you. A call with Frederic for €250: your Type Card review, or your day-90 decision.

€590 for 180 days

All 7 tools, 1 re-test, 1 city. On their own they add up to €827.

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